Monday, November 30, 2009
Practice Makes Perfect
Sunday, November 29, 2009
The Patriarch

Friday, November 27, 2009
Too Much Excitement


When I wrote about the Thanksgiving traditions I left one out. It was going around the table and sharing something we our thankful for this year. It was moving in many ways because the sharing included that step into the future of being thankful for new additions to the circle, but mine was about a subtraction from the circle. I said that although I miss Marsha daily I am thankful because it has helped me to focus on all the wonderful things we had done together. I remember her and almost see her better today than when she was beside me every day. I don't think I'm idealizing her, because I can just as easily remember the ways we were oil and water to each other, and her stubbornness (not mine of course), and even some of that makes me smile in hind sight. I'm also grateful that my four grandchildren got to really know Marsha, and love her as I do. I am thankful that I am one lucky Bumpa to have my adult children and my adult and almost adult grandchildren. The picture with me and the girls expresses as well as anything how lucky I am. God is good all the time, and some times we even see it.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Enjoyment
It amazes me the variety of things that interest people and fill their time. I certainly enjoy golf and the beach, but they would not be enough if I did not have the church and my relationship with the Lord. I know people look at what I do and think that it might be enjoyable but they could not get into it the way I do. I think especially when I go out in the water and just float for a very long time, people don't understand the attraction to this particular inactive activity. To most it looks boring but those same people would probably find silent meditation at home boring. For me it is the place where I cement the peace in my soul that is my anchor in life. We are all so different.
I'm happy to be here with Merrie and Rich and Bekah and Jen and Laura and Chris. It does seem that a place is empty but the spirit in the gathering is joyful and I am so glad to be here. It is only a few days, but Thanksgiving has always been a family time and this is the part of my family that I will enjoy the experience of giving thanks with this year. Some things new, some things familiar, some things gone, but enjoyment is still to be found in my life with those God has provided for me to give and receive love. Family, friends, pilgrims on the journey and those who are yet to be included fill life with blessings. We don't have to hunt for that we just need to be open to share ourselves.
Tuesday, November 24, 2009
Thanksgiving

Good Cry Today

Monday, November 23, 2009
The Blind Side
I went to the movies today and saw "The Blind Side". It is the second Sandra Bullock movie of the year that I thought was fantastic. "The Proposal" was the funniest movie from beginning to end that I have ever seen, but this movie was solid for a good true story with a meaningful message. I know that it is impossible to come up with simple solutions to complex problems, but this movie certainly points out the bottom line in some of those complex problems. I always like movies that are true stories even though they might have been dramatized a little. Michael Orr had a terrible life and would have been given no chance at success when he ends up in a good school and then becomes included in a good wealthy home. Not only did he show he was not dumb, but he showed his principles. The characters in the family and the teachers are interesting as well. This movie is a feel good movie that gives you so much to think about. I'm glad I like Sandra Bullock because I might have missed two great entertainment opportunities if I didn't like to see her movies. She may not be the best actress ot the most beautiful either, but her movies are usually worth the price of admission.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
God is so Good
Friday, November 20, 2009
The Frog Prince
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Remembrance

In an earlier blog I mentioned seeing the movie UP with young Jake Tricket. This weekend I was in conversation with my friend Don Blackwell after he had watched the movie with his granddaughter. We talked about the album where the female character was going to paste all the memories from their far off adventure, the adventure that never happened. At the end of the movie the male character opened the scrapbook to find it full of everyday memories and at the end a note thanking him for the great adventure. Passing our honeymoon spot reminded me of all those early dreams and struggles as fantasies were molded into reality. Life day by day still formed the path to a great adventure, just not the one we planned. In fact it was so much better than our dreams, I'm glad we stayed awake and didn't miss it.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
To Be A Lover

I just finished a funeral for a long time friend who was also the brother of my my brother's wife Marcia. Teddy was a character of the first order. He definitely marched to his own drummer and some of his choices put his own health at risk. Many looking from the outside at his life would not see someone who could make God happy. Teddy, however, was a lover, and God loves a lover. God's example like Marsha's was to give of himself completely to others, but unlike Marsha that meant giving himself much more completely. Putting others before yourself is a standard that can be found in scripture all over the place. Teddy always listened and cared about what was happening in other peoples lives. He went out of his way to care for others. One example was his disabled friend Pete who Teddy took out of the house and brought places even when he had nothing to offer Teddy. That's God's type of love.
I've said often that one aspect of God's transformation is to turn us around from selfishness to loving. I always wanted to be a lover but for many years I had the wrong definition. My definition was self serving. I was so lucky to learn to be a true lover. I thank God that he never let me go my self-centered way. I can't imagine going back to the lifestyle that says all decisions should be made for our informed self interest. Happiness is not found there. As for me I like to be a lover.
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
For the Birds

Thursday, November 12, 2009
The Ultimate Chearleader

Wednesday, November 11, 2009
The American Dream

Marsha and I grew up in families that often times had to rob Peter to pay Paul as the saying goes. We didn't starve and always had a roof over our heads but it was well known in our families that money was tough and especially in the winter. Our generation was given a leg up by our parents generation. My brother Terry and I got to go to college and Marsha's mother who always wanted to go to school made sure her children got educated if they could or would. I appreciate what others have done for me. I know I'm not living the life I live because by some special quality of mine as if I deserve it while others don't. I was lucky to be born into opportunities that not everyone had or even have today. I didn't somehow earn this possibility in fact I even made valiant attempts to throw it away at times. I can see in my own life the sacrifice that gave me personally the opportunities that I've had and brought to me the blessed life I now live. Our families sacrifices were real and important for us as individuals. Life would not be the same in my world if they had not occurred.
With that in mind, today is Veteran's Day. We can only guess or imagine what the world would be like today without our veterans. We speak of the freedom we enjoy in this country and I know many of the veterans died or suffered so I can enjoy them, but what would the world be like without American veterans. Democratic life really sprung forth as a possibility as a result of our revolutionary war veterans. Democracy swept other parts of the world as well as our own. The Holocaust would not have ended without the bravery of American soldiers in World War II. Where would Hitler have been stopped and what would that mean for the world. Even peace time veterans and those of other conflicts, those approved and those disapproved, showed that this country will stand and fight for democracy. As a young man I tried to enlist while I was on probation with legal issues and they wouldn't take me, so I'm not one of those veterans, but today I honor those of you who are. You too have given me a leg up toward a dream I don't deserve and I life I never earned.
We still may have too many who can't get to where I am, and we need to recognize that none of us deserves what we have. Working so all can share in the blessings of this country is what all those veterans served and died for. May the dream for all Americans continue today and always. Our veteran's sacrifices deserves that much from us all.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Hometown

Monday, November 9, 2009
Hold On & Let Go

Sunday, November 8, 2009
Talents
We all have talents of one kind or another. Today in church the bishop spoke about using our talents and specifically the spiritual ones that God gives us so we can do more than we could ask for or imagine. The worst thing is to waste our talents. I believe God has a purpose for our lives and wants to use our natural and spiritual gifts and talents to benefit the world and His purpose for this world. Too often we use our talents only for our own benefit, and our purpose. Go out and serve, go out and help, go out and create a better world. It's time to stop blaming everyone else for what's wrong. It's time to accomplish what's right.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Good and Evil

Thursday, November 5, 2009
Feeling Old

Wednesday, November 4, 2009
Widower

Monday, November 2, 2009
Experiences
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Health and Wholeness
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