We are so spoiled as adults. We have lived through so much that was fun and we become dissatisfied with what we have done. I'm not sure it is human nature but is certainly an easy trap that we want the newest and biggest and best. I have been reminded of the excitement of children this week. One of my nephews has two young children and I have watched them be filled with excitement over some of the same simple things that excited my children and grandchildren. Olivia with her tea party that took hours to prepare. Cameron with a bike ride around the block and how fast he could go. The beach and sand castles and walking the dog all show a measure of excitement. I have returned to a more simple life in some ways. I don't go out to eat and I cook and live a simple life. I walk the beach and swim and play golf. I can't say those things excite me, but I am certainly content. I do excited when I am involved in worship and especially when peaching I get excited. I just wish we could retain some of that child like simplicity. We need back to basics and not in school. We need it in life.
Sunday, May 30, 2010
Friday, May 28, 2010
The Newest Boynton
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Family Time
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Play With the Pro
I've been having fun on the golf course. I play with guys like me. Older guys with limited ability who have fun playing the game but who are past their most athletic years. Some of them are clear that their drives and other shots get shorter by ten yards a year. I feel pretty good when I play with that crowd. In fact I'm pretty good in comparison with that group after playing as much as I do. Tomorrow will be a definite reality check. I play with my nephew who gives golf lessons for a living and who spent years striving to become a tour pro because he was close in many ways but far away in others. he has the game but is a step below what will make a real living. He's sure he'll shoot a 69 tomorrow and I know when he hits the ball I will just stand and stare. I'll have fun anyway but it won't be one of those days to build my ego. It's a good thing I really like him.
Monday, May 24, 2010
Busy Not Bad
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Power and Presence
Tomorrow in the church calendar is Pentecost or Whitsunday. In church history it celebrates the day the apostles were filled with the Holy Spirit with a miraculous display of God's power working in them. God's presence through the Holy Spirit brings character change and development to us. I love the fruit of the spirit because they are the character work that God does in us through the presence of the Holy Spirit. That character development grows the ability in me to have inner peace when it wouldn't be expected or patience when I used to be impatient. I can love more and more without any strings attached. These are not my human goals or achievements but rather the work of God that happens by allowing the Holy Spirit to be more and more the genuine presence in my soul.
Pentecost or Whitsunday however is more about the power of God to accomplish through us what we are unable to accomplish in our own abilities. A whit is an old name for a spirit. We are always keenly aware of our senses, and give great preference to those things that can be measured by our senses. The growth of science elevated the importance of our biological senses, but we retain the vocabulary that provides evidence of the past value given to our spiritual resources. The spelling of whit became wit and we all know we need to keep our wits about us, or we might come to our wits end. And if we do something completely foolish we might be called a dim wit. So many times I have known what to do because of the Holy Spirit. People sometimes say to me how did you know, and my answer is only that I know because I know. I have somehow learned to sense the leading of God's spirit, which is his desire for us all, and I just know because I know. When you know you have to tell a young woman who has been struggling with an inability to get pregnant that God says she will be pregnant very soon just because you know God really wants her to know it can get a little scary. I told she and her husband with some fear and trembling. What would she think and what if I was wrong, but I knew because I knew and indeed she was pregnant very soon. Example after example could be given of places I went and things I knew I needed to do because of the Holy Spirit. I celebrate tomorrow because the reality of the work of the Holy Spirit in my life has been amazing and more amazing. What a gift freely offered to us all.
Friday, May 21, 2010
Prayer

Thursday, May 20, 2010
Walking the Beach
I took the time today to take a really long walk on the beach. The sun was warm and the breeze was gentle and the air was fresh and not too humid. The waves were breaking on my left as I walked down the beach and on my right on the walk back. They were active but not violent and often washed up over my feet as I walked along. On this walk I was listening to my Christian music with my Ipod and trying not to sing conspicuously as I walked along with people around me. I was deep into thought about my wife Marsha. At bible study today heaven became a focus for part of the discussion and in particular if we will recognize people from this life when we get to heaven. My friend said why does it matter to us, and I said I take comfort from the thought of seeing Marsha again. I don't know if I will or won't see her again but it is true I take comfort from the thought of seeing her again. My walk on the beach was spent processing that idea. I guess in this walk I came to the conclusion that there is nothing wrong with taking comfort that I will see Marsha again if it helps me today. You see I think at my best on a walk is like that. The steps are pretty automatic and the pace seems to fall into a biological rhythm. Thinking which is natural to me anyway often becomes even more productive on a walk. I don't think we were made for cars, planes and airplanes. We need to go for a walk or two. Problems might be a lot smaller and solutions a lot better if we did.
Monday, May 17, 2010
No Angels
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Cursillo in Christianity
Most often we just use the word Cursillo to describe this retreat method which used world wide today to help people become Christian leaders. Cursillo is a Spanish word which basically means short course so the real name is Short Course in Christianity. I was blindly lead to a Cursillo in October of 1979 at the Oblate Center in Natick Massachusetts. I say blindly because I had no idea what it was or what I would experience. It was the first weekend after I closed Camp Dennen that year, so it would have been my first weekend at home without obligations and yet God gave me a strong desire in my heart to do this retreat. Although some people see me differently, I am not one to jump boldly into the unknown. I like to figure things out and understand things. This was doing something without any knowledge of what it was on a weekend that should have been the least desirable and yet God made it the desire of my heart. I could have shut that desire up with practicality but I didn't, this time I went with it and my life was changed forever. Marsha went on her Cursillo this next month and had the exact same experience, her life was changed forever. Our lives have been woven together with the Cursillo movement ever since in one way or another. Cursillo gave us an ongoing method to continue the process of growth as human beings. I think I was better husband because of Cursillo, a better father and grandfather, a better teacher, and I never would have been a priest at all without Cursillo. It's over thirty years now since my original Cursillo and I am still trying to be faithful to the method I learned in October 1979 because it works to help transform a life into something more beautiful and engaging and enjoyable and productive and faithful and ...... I go this morning to participate again in the planning of a Cursillo. It is a new community with different ways of doing things but the same tried and true method for structuring a Christian life. I cannot think of a place I would rather be. You see I still answer that inner thing where God has created the desire of my heart to be with Him and he meets me every time anew on Cursillo.
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Home Comfort

I think that is what God wants to do for us. Life works and has an inner comfort when I am following God's plan. He set the pattern for us to follow and knows that when we learn his model life works. Peace that passes understanding, joy that can't be taken away. and the assurance of God's presence at all times, what more can we ask for. If home is where the heart is my home is with the Lord.
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
What Do You Think?

Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Hard Work & Grace

Monday, May 10, 2010
Personalities

Sunday, May 9, 2010
Mother's Day

Saturday, May 8, 2010
Fasting

In about ten minutes the youth of my church will fast for thirty hours on only water. They will all be together during a directed overnight time at church. I pray this time will be blessed by the Lord for both our youth and the recipients of the money they raise for World Vision. It is a funny coincidence that my first church as rector held a thirty hour fast last weekend for World Vision. I read of their excitement of accomplishment both personal and excitement for their service to others. I pray that the youth here at Church of the Resurrection will know both kinds of accomplishment and that each of them will have somehow drawn closer to the Lord as well during this fast today. I volunteered to supervise the cardboard village in which they will sleep on the front lawn of the church tonight from 3 AM to 6 AM. I pray also that they all want to sleep tonight.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
They Think I'm Wise

Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Movies
I like movies. I can watch some of them again and again. Today I watched Dances With Wolves for the I don't know how many times. I remember seeing it for the first time in Cambridge with Marsha. It was the weekend in the middle of the General Ordination Exams. I had a room at the seminary for the week of the exams including the weekend and Marsha had come in for the weekend with me. On the big screen seeing it for the first time it was unbelievable. We both wept at parts of it and were touched by others and understood that it had a message beyond itself. To me what makes a movie great is that combination of effects. With this particular movie it is the combination of a compelling historical novel with a serious look at humanity. The indian culture seeking group wisdom has always been attractive to me for example. At the same time the hostility between indians tribes and indians with the whites both show a common problem of human unwillingness to try to understand people who are different. I think we fear that if we try to understand those who look different or think different or talk different that we will have to change. Maybe sometimes that is what will make sense in the end, but more often we hold onto the values and choices which define us. I admire the two main characters who are invested in coming to know each other. I would love a world filled with people like that.
Monday, May 3, 2010
Simple


Sunday, May 2, 2010
Opportunities
I grew up in a family with a dad who worked with his hands. He never completed high school, in fact his family worked very hard to be able to keep his youngest brother in school to graduate high school. My uncle Hugh, the only high school graduate, died in WWII. My dad was very smart but his opportunities were limited. I think my brothers and I thought that opportunities were available to us but I'm not sure my parents ever dreamt that college was possible. My older brother opened that door and that changed everything. My parents changed their vision and for me college was then an expectation not an opportunity.
Opportunities are kind of open ended, like a matter of choice. They feel like a take it or leave it scenario. Expectations are more solid, they contain an element limitation. Expectations seem to limit choice, and I think in many peoples minds that is a bad thing. Expecting too much is one of the most negative things that can be said about a parent or a boss isn't it. It's as if we are not accepting someone. I think expectations get a bad rap.
I hate to tell you this but God has expectations. He gives you absolute freedom but he also has expectations. Life is full of opportunities and pregnant with possibilities, but they are just the place where we can do what God expects of us if we have a hope of experiencing a truly blessed life. Yesterday I wrote about the little things. At our best those little things match nicely with the expectations God has for us. If they do they will pour out blessing on those who are part of the details while blessing us at the same time.
The most basic summary of God's expectations in the words of Jesus were. "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and soul and mind, and love your neighbor as yourself." Loving God first means caring first about things he expects of us. I simply want to meet the expectations of the one I love. Loving my neighbor as myself means treating those around me the way I know God wants them to be treated, the same way he treats me.
I love that God expects my best. I pray I can please Him with all the little things in my life.
Saturday, May 1, 2010
The Little Things

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