Since the first of the year I have been included in the staff meetings and the staff planning for the Church of the Resurrection. It is so wonderful to be a part of a team again. Today the rector and I met to look at planning for Advent , Epiphany, Lent & Easter for the coming year. To really start detailed planning six months in advance and talk about what would excite us in our ministry together is a real treat. I'm retired and I can pick and choose what I want to do and I have set limits around my involvement. It is still nice to be part of the team and working with a quality group of Christians to serve Christ in transformational ministry.
Monday, June 28, 2010
Team Work
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Saving the Best to Last
I have been watching the World Cup Soccer Tournament. When the USA fell behind or scored the winning goal near the end in match after match, and always managed to pull it out in the end, it did feel like saving the best to last was just great. Today however they fell behind twice and they couldn't come back to the win in order to move on to the next match. The best wasn't saved to last today. They were eliminated from the tournament. It was clear really all along that the team was giving up to many early goals and putting themselves in difficult circumstances. Some times it is just plain too late. The best to the last philosophy doesn't always cut it.
I was so grateful that my marriage to Marsha just got better and better through the years. In some ways our life together was saving the best to last, but we did live looking forward to our time of retirement that never really materialized. We looked forward to so much that will never happen, and I regret some of that. One thing is for sure we both found the absolute best when we found our personal relationship with Christ our Lord in 1979. For both of us that was and is the peak, the pinnacle, the Everest of a human life. We didn't save that best until last in that case, we enjoyed many years of that blessing, and it made even the difficulty of Marsha's illness and death a time of deep love and sharing.
It could be nice to save the best to last, but remember in some circumstances it can just be too late.
Friday, June 25, 2010
KK
I have been praying for a woman that I have known for over twenty years who was suffering from cancer. Her name was Kay Tenerowitz but we called her KK. She and her husband Ted were among the most genuine Christian people I have ever known. Both of them were just gentle loving souls filled with a kind spirit. KK passed away during the night in Ludlow MA. Ted died some years ago so during her later years KK would come to Camp Dennen for the summer alone. Her daughter came on weekends but KK was nearly blind and did not drive so she relied on the help of neighbors and friends. One of the hardest things to do is to have to rely on others, especially when they are not family. KK understood the reality of true living in the Body of Christ. Real Christian living depends on Christ and on each other. KK made it to Eucharist almost every morning and cleaned all the linens for the altar. She was a prayer warrior who you could rely on for intercession.
She and Ted were not remarkable people in many ways. They weren't rich or famous. They didn't have any singular dramatic accomplishments, but I know from my own experience that I wanted to be a Christian like them. Knowing them as I did I don't think I am alone in that desire. This morning at the golf course my friend Larry asked how things were and I said the world lost one of it's blessed saints last night. She won't be on a stained glass window, but she has been welcomed to her final home as indeed one of the blessed saints. Rest in peace dear KK.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Abby Sciuto Week
How can you fall in love with a scientific naive goth woman. It all seems like an impossible combination with her innocence, like bowling with the nuns, while frequent references are made to her active unmarried sex life. With all the strange pieces she still has that strange attraction. Marsha loved Abby and I must say I do like her character. I think we recognize some of the strange contradictions that exist in all of us when we encounter Abby. I think with other people we want to make them very simple, as if we completely understand them from the small glimpses we have into their reality. However when we look at ourselves we see the complicated contradictions that operate in us. Although for me Abby may be a cute over the top exaggeration, in some way she connects with people, because she is a bit unlovable and yet is profoundly loved. A lot of us feel a bit unlovable for one reason or another and yet want to be profoundly loved. Abby makes us feel like that love is possible.
Marsha would love a week with Abby at the center. Marsha was complicated too. I loved that about her. Life with her was a constant surprise and yet almost entirely predictable in hindsight. Well I love love Abbey week too! I like the way it helps me remember Marsha.
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Strength

I've watched people fight through life issues that gave me more admiration however. I've tried to help people who have are going through a divorce and can't understand what has happened. I've worked with people who battled depression for years and faced the struggle with courage every day. I've been with people suffering from cancer that is terminal. I was amazed at Marsha both by her strength in dealing with the problems of her illness, but even more so the perseverance of her faith without ever faltering through the same moments.
I love persistence in a QUITTER WORLD. It seems like giving up at the first sign of struggle is pervasive in our society. I don't know what I would do of course in anyone else's life so I'm not judging, but it is inspiring to see determination and perseverance. You know God never gives up on us. Thank God!!!
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Father's Day

I'm not sure my children know how much I have enjoyed being their father. They should know I love them, but I'm not sure they understand that I have enjoyed being their father. Among the challenges of being a dad, I might have created a false impression that being a father was such hard work that it overcame any enjoyment.
I also have my quirks of nature. I have tremendous joy on the inside, I even laugh frequently on the inside but for some strange unknown reason I rarely show it on the outside. So, when I'm pleased or proud or just having a good time with my children it might be hard for them to know. Marsha and I struggled at times to agree about parenting and maybe that is part of the issue, but we both loved being parents. Marsha was just so over the top obvious about her feelings that I'm sure they knew she enjoyed being their mother, but on this Father's Day I want to reverse the process a bit and tell my children how much it means to me that I could be their dad. Thanks for everything, both of you are a treasure in my life.
Saturday, June 12, 2010
Useful When Faithful

Thursday, June 10, 2010
The Birthday Singer

Monday, June 7, 2010
Preaching

Saturday, June 5, 2010
Nice Week
I've been reflecting on this week. You might know that I had my mother and other family members here this week. I had spent many years living at a distance from my biological family. I always felt a part of Marsha's biological family so it wasn't as if I lacked family, but I always felt a little void that my family was so spread around and we saw each other so infrequently. Myrtle Beach has been a blessing not just because I love golf and the beach, but also because it was a favorite place for my golfing older brother. Although he didn't own property here, he had come here for many years for golfing excursions. It has felt really good to feel connected to my family again. This week I spent time with all three of my brothers sons and their families. I loved being an uncle to my nephews and nieces on Marsha's side of the family, but didn't have that opportunity with my side of the family. This week a had a chance to be a great uncle to my brothers grandchildren and it made me feel like I did when I had all those nephews and nieces around me years ago. I know families can be challenging, but they remain a central part of who we are. I love being included with my family again. I loved being an accepted part of Marsha's family. I thank God for these blessings in my life.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Another Birthday

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